I used to work at a small liberal arts college in a
well-placed cornfield in southern Indiana. It was a terribly isolating and
completely life changing experience. I walked into my time at Hanover with
fear. That’s the appropriate word. I was afraid of the loneliness and onlyness
that came with being one of few people of color in the county and even fewer at
the institution. There were millions of reasons why I should have said no to
the job and only one big reason why I was taking it… I felt God pulling me
there.
The early years were tough. There were so many times when I
walked into the local restaurants and felt the world screech to a halt as
everyone realized that a black woman had entered the building. I’ve been stared
down by confederate flag wearing men in grocery stores. People randomly grabbed
my hair. I was the representative for all Black people on all the occasions.
AND once, while driving back from a college fair, I found myself passing through
a Trimble county Klan Rally. Yup Klan rally.
My home/work life (because I lived on the campus these
experiences were inseparable) was a continuous love-hate relationship. I
believed in Hanover, the place and the people. It was a genuine and warm place
but the microaggressions were plentiful. That was hard to unpack. I needed
these folks and I needed them to be good people and when you first begin social
justice work, its really hard to not separate internalized oppression and the
overall character of an individual. (This is still difficult and truth be told
sometimes people aren’t good people.) But I had to learn that sometimes people have
a want to be good and an internal leaning towards white supremacy.
A bigger challenge was coming to terms with the fact that
these problematically good people had created some equally problematic systems
and policies that negatively impacted marginalized folks. As the designated
diversity staff member, it was my responsibility to point out and dismantle
these policies. A great deal of vulnerability came along with this. I was an
outsider in every possible way. My work seemed to be and totally was attacking
the White status quo of the institution. All the White fragility… so many White
tears. I cannot take credit for changing all of Hanover, but I can certainly be
proud that a great deal of change came at my expense.
I say all of this to say, I appreciate Darryl Smith’s
holistic approach to institutional change. As someone who has felt extremely
marginalized and solely responsible for transforming an institution, I find her
willingness to call out institutional Whiteness and its constant vigilance in
protecting the White status quo both refreshing and long overdue. It wasn’t
until reading the section of Smith’s writing that called out the unfairness
that is being an administrator of color in higher education, that I finally
reflected on the pain and pleasure that came along with my time in Hanover. It
was honestly second nature, experience oppression while attempting to undo it.
I often feel guilty for beginning my reflections on Hanover with the not so nice moments of my time there but I can talk about my triumphs with out clearly outlining the truth about the environment. We couldn't have achieved triumph in Hanover without being honest about the environment.
Fear of onlyness and loneliness. wow. Hair touching, conversation stopping microaggressive experiences may have ultimately helped you develop your understandings of 'good people' who do not fully understand systemic issues of oppression. Yes, Smith has to understood as institutional and systemic change, and not merely compositional diversity. Lastly I appreciate your statement about honesty. We need to have more honest conversations about what is wrong with a place or people. Now, how to do this in a winsome manner that would cultivate honest reflection? That's another story.
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